Jesurgislac’s Journal

April 7, 2009

But we are winning…

XKCD - AntiMindvirus image

I dunno. What is this obsession with incest, polygamy, and bestiality that most of the anti-marriage movement seem to have? I just stumbled across yet another of these people. [redacted name and link to blog]

FWIW, “MK”, Dan Savage has the right of it, and in words simple enough for even you to understand: “Bestiality is wrong, wrong, wrong, because an animal cannot give its consent.” That may be the problem, of course: these creatures howling at the edge of the world don’t really understand the concept of sexual consent, any more than they have any more understanding of what marriage involves – I mean real marriage: real commitment to another person, to love, honour, cherish, live with and long for. Until they have got a basic understanding of sexual consent, one hopes they do not, in fact, engage in marriage – if they could find anyone, since their notion of marriage is strictly limited to “Are we interfertile?” and not in any way touching on “Are you the one person I want to be with for the rest of my life”.

So for them, and particularly for you, Matthew, you zoophiliac, go read A Modest Proposal: The Thorny Issue of Sexual Consent.

In the mean time: that XKCD cartoon is addressed to me, to all of us who support marriage as a civil liberty essential to the orderly pursuit of happiness: the doors are opening, and love is coming in. However sad and horrible these people are, however vicious their attacks on families and on marriage and even on simple human loving – they are on the losing side.

Let me try and remember that.

Update – not an afterthought, exactly, because it’s one I had before.

I was at a friend’s funeral last week. And it was sad and strange – he had been slowly dying for years, but it was like: he had been almost dying so long that we all kept thinking he would keep doing it forever. But it occurred to me, sitting with his other half’s parents at the post-funeral meal afterwards, I mean really and literally right there and then – because my friend, like myself, had been a long time involved in gay equality activism – that even twenty-five years ago, a funeral like this with both their families and all their friends mingling, with a church service and the pastor who was the officiant at their wedding attending the burial, would have been all but unthinkable. Yet it is so. Now, today, 2009: this is how it is.

And I thought, for my friend as well as for myself: We got to do what not many people ever do. We live in a better world, a kinder and more generous and less hatefilled world, than the one we were born in, than the one we grew up in. We helped build it, this better world: it’s part of your legacy, as a gay activist, it will be part of mine.

He’s dead. I go on building.

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November 19, 2008

The universe doesn’t care what you believe

XKCD on science and religion

XKCD on science and religion

I find this strangely reassuring.

August 15, 2008

Who decides in November?

Well, come on, you know: the same people who decided in 2004.

Not the voters. The people who control the voting machines.

Since the year 2000, the US hasn’t had a national election where the exit polls corresponded to the results the voting machines provided.

Will Barack Obama win in November? I think it likely – Bush couldn’t win in 2000 or 2004, and neither Gore nor Kerry were as popular as Obama is, despite his recent betrayals.

Will McCain be in the White House in January? Quite probably.

On the other hand, if Chuck Hagel supports Obama for President, he may be all the voter Obama needs….

August 8, 2008

Vote McCain. It’s a whole barrel of… wow.

A whirlpool! by xkcd

A whirlpool! by xkcd

Ugh: I’m voting for McCain in 2008 because I want to see how this ends.
Me: Can’t you wait till it comes out on DVD?
Ugh: No no no! That’s what I’m doing w.r.t. Battlestar Galactica Season 4. And. Its. Killing. Me.
Jon H: Can’t you just settle for writing fanfic?
Johnny Pez: Already been done — a graphic novel called Shooting War.
(An Old, Old Story, on Obsidian Wings.)

However, if you don’t share Ugh’s impatience… (more…)

July 25, 2008

This is very Friday

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Hamster Ball

Hamster Ball

June 2, 2008

This is very yes.

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May 23, 2008

Vim and vinegar

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I knew it!

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