Jesurgislac’s Journal

September 28, 2008

Being “Pro-life” has nothing to do with being pro life

A few years ago on Obsidian Wings, Von (then one of the conservative front-page posters) put up a pic of a fetus and titled the post Why I’m pro-life. (Von added that his partner is pro-choice, and that they have long ago quit having dinner table conversations about it.)

When debating with or about pro-lifers, I am in the habit of using their own name for their own movement, because I do think people have a right to name their own identity: but I also feel that it’s necessary to point out that being “Pro-life” is not actually, literally, about being pro-life: it’s about being pro forced pregnancy.

One of the “pro-life” commenters on my post The basics: why pro-choice is the only moral option took exception to my pointing this out: Opple claimed it was an unfair attack, but of course it is not:

Being pro-choice means that, regardless of your personal opinion about abortion, in general or in particular, you support every woman’s right to decide for herself whether or not she will have a baby, and every pregnant woman’s right to make decisions for herself, in consultation with her doctor, regardless of how advanced her pregnancy is. Although being pro-choice and being feminist are intrinsically intertwined (a person who believes women ought not to be allowed to control our own bodies is patently not a feminist…) a person need not necessarily be a feminist to be pro-choice: you could hold sexist beliefs about women without necessarily believing that women ought to be used as incubators.

Being pro-life means being part of a movement that believes the government should have the right to force a woman through pregnancy and childbirth against her will, and that the legislature and the courts should have the right to make medical decisions for pregnant women, overriding their wishes and their doctor’s advice. Von’s excuse for being part of this movement is, he asserted by his post, the cute li’l fetus argument: which would make more sense if those cute li’l fetuses really did incubate in jars rather than requiring a pregnant woman to make use of her body and blood and resources in a nine-month effort that may jeopardise her life.


I adopted a cute lil’ American fetus
from Fetusmart! Hooray fetus!

Forced pregnancy, or as a friend says “forced labour”, is a much more accurate name for the movement to deny women the right to access abortion: but pro-life is so utterly contradictory that it almost works as a label so divorced from the reality of their political movement.

Around the world each year, more than 500,000 women die in pregnancy or childbirth due to lack of proper care. What does the pro-life movement focus on?

The Global Gag Rule

The Global Gag Rule was reinstated by President George W. Bush on his first day in office in January 2001. Officially termed the Mexico City Policy, these restrictions mandate that no U.S. family planning assistance can be provided to foreign NGOs that use funding from any other source to: perform abortions in cases other than a threat to the woman’s life, rape or incest; provide counseling and referral for abortion; or lobby to make abortion legal or more available in their country.

Called the “gag” rule because it stifles free speech and public debate on abortion-related issues, the policy forces a cruel choice on foreign NGOs: accept U.S. assistance to provide essential health services – but with restrictions that may jeopardize the health of many patients – or reject the policy and lose vital U.S. funds, contraceptive supplies and technical assistance. (The Global Gag Rule Impact Project)

The Global Gag Rule Impact Project notes that “the gag rule is eroding family planning and reproductive health services in developing countries. There is no evidence that it has reduced the incidence of abortion globally. On the contrary, it impedes the very services that help women avoid unwanted pregnancy from the start”. (Over a year before Bush reinstated the global gag rule, a paper was published that showed countries that have poor family planning services have a high rate of abortions: there was no global correlation between easy access to safe/legal abortion and a high abortion rate.)

Von and Sebastian (both front-page pro-lifers on Obsidian Wings – though both are currently on hiatus) have both consistently argued against universal free health care in the US – both only support people having access to health care if it can be made profitable to someone. They have consistently refused to explain how their ideological belief that anyone too poor to have health insurance does not deserve decent health care, fits with their ideological belief that no woman ought to be allowed to decide to terminate a pregnancy: and it is that refusal that firmed my belief that even pro-lifers who otherwise come across as decent, sensible, honest people, are being more or less insincere when they claim that they only want to prevent women from having the legal right to choose because they care about the fetuses. “Care for fetuses” is not expressed by denying women healthcare, or denying pregnant women mandatory paid maternity leave with the right to return to work, or by arguing that the baby can always be taken away from the mother as soon as born and given to wealthier parents – the old “adoption instead of abortion” argument, which in any country with so many unwanted children in need of adoptive parents, is just about the ugliest argument for forced pregnancy that anyone could possibly make.

I wrote this over four years ago:

We can all agree that abortion is a bad choice to have to make. Where are the pro-life Republicans calling for free health care for pregnant women and for all children to the age of 18? That basic, human help alone could make the difference between “Can afford” and “Can’t afford”. Where are the pro-lifers calling for free contraception to be available to all? For free daycare and nursery schools available to all low-income parents? For good, detailed, thorough sex education (the Netherlands have an excellent model) available to all children, well before they’re old enough to be actively interested in sex themselves, and regardless of their parents’ opinions on how much their children ought to be kept in ignorance? How many pro-lifers – Republican or Democrat – are actively campaigning for parents to have federal employment rights enabling them to maintain a career and be good parents? (I’m not just talking maternity leave or paternity leave or even “children’s sick days”. I’m talking an end to the work culture that says you don’t get promoted unless you’re putting in 12-hour days at your desk and always have unused leave at the end of the year.)

I’ve written similar comments since: no conservative pro-lifer has ever tried to engage this argument, and justify their denial of care to pregnant woman with their insistence that every fetus must be protected.

4 Comments »

  1. Same old tired rhetoric from a cold insensitive liberal who leaves out the fact that the “fetus”, as you so cruelly refer to, is actually a Human Being who deserves the right to live…just as much as you do. I don’t necessarily like you, but I would never approve of aborting you, just because you show little class and lack quality human character.

    I pray that you and those who think like you have a change of heart and mind to protect innocent life rather than destroy it.

    God bless you,

    Larry

    Comment by Larry — September 29, 2008 @ 7:02 am | Reply

  2. who leaves out the fact that the “fetus”, as you so cruelly refer to, is actually a Human Being who deserves the right to live…just as much as you do.

    Same tired insensitive crap from a pro-lifer who leaves out the facts that a pregnant woman is actually a Human Being who deserves at least the same rights as the fetus she is carrying – including the right to live: and that if a pregnant woman dies, the odds are extremely high that so does the fetus she is carrying. Fetuses don’t incubate in jars, Larry, no matter what your pro-life sites tell you.

    I pray that you and those who think like you have a change of heart and mind to protect innocent life rather than destroy it.

    I’m an atheist, but I hope that someday you have a change of heart and mind and realise that women are also human lives, to be protected, not destroyed.

    God bless you

    Your good wishes are appreciated, but I have to tell you that I’m a woman, if not a pregnant one, and thus not included in your very narrow definition of human beings.

    Comment by jesurgislac — September 29, 2008 @ 8:22 am | Reply

  3. Prochoice is playing God and choosing convenience because it suits your earthly vanity. Like it or not, born a woman, you are a ready and waiting incubator – Like your hair and eye color, accept it or live miserable. Abortion is no option. Save the world by reforming adoption legislation, not by pretending that wrong is right. Your argument is transparent and reflects self-focus rather than serving others.

    Comment by Nicole Catherine Conner — October 15, 2008 @ 10:07 am | Reply

  4. Nicole, if you consider yourself to be nothing but an incubator, “ready and waiting”, and your life is “serving others”, not self-focus, what are you doing with an e-mail identity of your own and posting comments as if you were a free person with the right to an opinion?

    Why, you sound almost as if you thought of yourself as a human being – even while you tell me I shouldn’t think of myself that way.

    Pro-choice means believing that no woman should be forced through pregnancy and childbirth against her will. It’s got nothing to do with “earthly vanities”.

    Comment by jesurgislac — October 15, 2008 @ 2:34 pm | Reply


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